Let’s be honest, while it’s wonderful to give, it’s not so bad to receive either.  I especially look forward to the gifts my son makes for me.  This year I was even more touched by the wrapping. \n\nWhile I have several academic degrees on the wall, what I’ve learned about parenting is by trial and error.  I wake each day with the intention to be the best parent possible.  But I have my moments – where patience is lost, frustration sets in and I wonder am I getting this right?\n\nSeeing myself through the eyes and words of my 10 year-old son was a priceless gift.  I smiled, and of course got tears in my eyes.  It looks like a passing grade.  Thankfully, he doesn’t see me as the drill sergeant- hounding him about homework, eating right and brushing his teeth; but as someone who cares about people and tries to find fun and joy in life. I hope these are lesson he will carry with him forever.\n\nWhether in the workplace or at home, the gift of feedback and recognition is valuable. Take a moment and tell those around you how you “see” them and what they mean in your life. It may just be the best gift they receive.